Sometimes we like to hold on to grudges and anger towards people, places or things, especially when we feel we’ve been wronged, and there certainly have been times that was the case.  But holding on only hurts YOU.   Most of the time the person or cause has no idea and couldn’t care less even if they did.  We go through our day reliving the event and replaying it for others who will listed and in the end we’ve wasted precious living time on meaningless mind chatter.  We need to let go or we get dragged…. Ouch that hurts..

While we really shouldn’t take time outs because we might miss moments in life….. There are  times when we need to.   Just like in a sports game time outs are needed to re access the situation at hand,  and play the best solution available at that moment.  So is true in our lives.  Sometimes we need to take that time out and regroup so we can make a better decision.

Everyday at some point almost all of us say something like.  Ya when I get that raise I’ll go back to school or have kids. Or,  when I lose that weight I’ll be able to find the right someone.  Or some line of BS we feed our self that only puts off the things we could and should do today or plan today for the very near future. Success is not waiting, it’s doing, constant and consistent action.   What are you waiting for……….

It sure seems like we can never get things done fast enough.  We rush this, we hurry that and for what.  What do we truly gain.  Actually we lose, we lose a lot.  As we hustle and bustle the important things go blowing by and we miss them.  Let’s take a few minutes to slow down, really do things right so they’ll support us for a long time to come and enjoy the little things in the day……